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Osobiste doświadczenie by Kenzaburō Ōe

mikhael's review against another edition

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3.0

Brutal. Well written and provocative, but for my money, gratuitous. I want to read more Ōe

melissa_b's review against another edition

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4.25

 “I must forbid them to operate, otherwise the baby will march into my world like an occupying army.” 

A read for someone afraid of giving up their dreams for a kid, but told by a self destructive and deeply flawed person. Although the main character is a bad person, there is some redemption for him at the end. The author went through a similar transition into parenthood when his son was born with a deformity that left him handicapped. 

buddhafish's review against another edition

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4.0

124th book of 2022.

This is far more human than the previous Ōe book I read (The Silent Cry), and therefore I preferred it. I wonder if I had read them the other way around, I would have been moved differently. A Personal Matter is a fascinating look into a man known as Bird as we follow the birth of his son, who is born with, so the doctors believe, a brain hernia that protrudes from his head like a second head. Ōe takes us into Bird's grotesque mind, following him in infidelity, sexual thoughts and the hope that his son dies so Bird does not have to raise a 'vegetable'. Bird, funnily enough, reminded me a lot of Updike's animal nicknamed "Rabbit" Angstrom from Rabbit, Run that was published four years before this. Both men attempt to flee their problems and act out in unsavoury ways. However, there is something imitable about Ōe's prose and dialogue: like in The Silent Cry the dialogue feels bizarre and the characters act realistically, but equally, like they are all actors cast as the wrong characters. The whole thing is like a deluded play, as I said in one of my updates. There's no way to put my finger on it, reading him is just unlike reading anyone else. His novels will continue to fascinate me endlessly, I have no doubt.

kyleehayes's review against another edition

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challenging sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

tolomeo's review against another edition

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4.0

yes.

jsoucie's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5


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sageofthe6pack's review against another edition

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dark funny reflective slow-paced

3.5

imanit's review against another edition

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4.0

A very unsympathetic main character, which made it hard for me to get into. A child born not able bodied and a fathers reaction to it, he does everything wrong, which is frustrating but probably very honest.

hakki_sayin's review against another edition

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5.0

Annemde Üç Gün'den bu yana okuduğum en iyi roman. Sonra detaylı yazarım belki kitap hakkında.. Son 30-40 sayfası biraz zayıflamıştı, buna rağmen öncesi o kadar o kadar güçlüydü ki şaşkınım.

amy__e's review against another edition

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3.0

3.5 stars. Difficult subject matter. Suspect some of his writing style got lost in translation but well written.