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George Washington's Rules of Civility by George Washington

fallona's review against another edition

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2.0

Though an interesting look at what constituted proper behavior for upper class men in the 18th century, this edition is not particularly clear on the actual origin of the rules (which were not written by Washington, but translated by him). It is unlikely that most people from other walks of life followed these even at the time, which is why the comments in other reviews to the effect that people should follow these more strictly today amuse me a little. Though yes, there are some very good suggestions and much of what is suggested does contribute toward good manners, it's important to remember the cultural milieu of these things.

One of the odder aspects is the emphasis on social rank, to include such things as what order a group of people should walk in, and who you can and cannot lodge with, even if the invitation is extended (also based on rank). Though there may be limited situations in which knowing these things might be useful today, I don't know very many people that exceptionally aware of their rank in comparison to others. Some good suggestions, but also many suggestions that, if followed to the letter, would complicate a situation more than help it.

So, in my view, it's mostly useful as a historical document that does help to illustrate the path to present-day good manners. It should not, for most people, be a strict rulebook to be taken at face value. More importantly, published editions should offer more analysis of the origins of the rules than this edition seemed to do.

kimball_hansen's review against another edition

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3.0

This was a quality little gem that I'd like to own. Many of the practices should still be put into effect today so we can be more decent people. But, sadly, they've fallen by the wayside. I liked rule #96: It's unbecoming to stoop much to one's meat. Keep fingers clean and when foul wipe them on the corner of your table napkin. Why aren't I using the word foul more in my everyday conversation? That's the best word.

There were a few rules that I thought were stupid like rule #85: In company of those higher quality than yourself, speak not till you are asked a question, then stand upright, put off your hat and answer in few words. I don't like the answer in a few words part. Maybe I'm breaking rule #73 so I'll stop.

mfumarolo's review against another edition

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An interesting list of rules President Washington translated when he was 14 from French and strived to live by. Some are very outdated, but quite a lot still ring true.

abeckstrom's review against another edition

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5.0

Should be required reading before anyone is allowed to comment or post online.

kiki_visinand's review against another edition

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challenging informative inspiring reflective

5.0

jblmk's review against another edition

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5.0

Patriotic toward independence and a passion for freedom.

hardcoverhoe's review against another edition

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Timeless wisdom. He was not without his flaws, but it is commendable how important good manners, moral, composure, and character were to Washington, even at such a young age. 

Some rules are a bit outdated, but most are just as applicable today as they were centuries ago. 

“Labor to keep alive in your breast that little spark of celestial fire called conscience.”

rogue_leader's review against another edition

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5.0

Everyone running for public office should read this! Hell, every person should read this! Not everything is relevant anymore, but, what is is gold.

kszielin's review against another edition

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3.0

I know a feel people that could really read this, haha. The full list (and the "plain English translations") can be found at http://www.foundationsmag.com/civility.html

quoththegirl's review against another edition

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3.0

I picked up George Washington’s Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation while at the Bunker Hill Museum. This little red book is packed with gems like Rule the 35th: “Let your discourse with men of business be short and comprehensive.” Read and be edified.