This was incredible. It was a short read; if I had made the effort, I could have finished in a single sitting, but instead I stretched it over several short spans. I consider this almost a handbook for understanding some of the inner workings of men. As I write this, I've only been married a month, and already Feldhahn's guidance has helped me understand why my husband reacts in certain ways or does certain things. The breakdown of issues important to men (that aren't always as important to women) have been such a help to me - and echoing some of them to my mom and grandmother, they've agreed that this book is a fountain of wisdom!