TW: misgendering, abuse, transphobia, bullying, forcibly being outed

Note: I am a trans, non binary person

The ending was incredibly triggering for me, and I had to take a bit to recover. Please make sure you are in a safe heads pace for reading this one.

You never owe anyone coming out, and you never have any right to force someone out of the closet just because you think they'll be 'happier' or will thank you later.