Truly the rating "it was okay" sums up my impressions. There was one lightbulb moment for me (early on the authors point out that just as people tend to ignore strength in girls, we tend to flip it and ignore vulnerability in boys - lightbulb!), but most of the book felt more like a reminder of things one should keep in mind with ANY child - not just with boys. Which is not bad to be reminded of as a new parent.