The book explores the notion of looking back in time, reminiscing about the past, and how these reflections can affect our emotions. 

The central theme of family and relationships, particularly the close connection between a father and his daughter, plays a significant role in the narrative. 

The book is also about discovering who you truly are and the choices you’ve made in life. It emphasizes the influence of storytelling and how different versions of stories can shape our lives.

“There’s the stuff that changes, and there’s the stuff that doesn’t. We’re all trying to sort out our inner messes—no one has it any better. Even the Buddhists! They’re better at trying, maybe, or better at pushing aside all of that. It’s not about the time. It’s about how you spend it. Where you put your energy—”