Absolutely stellar read for anyone who is in a relationship where they feel betrayed or has ever been in one. This book will help you come to terms with your feelings and understand yourself better. It is not a "man hater" type book. It really deals compassionately with the issues of cheating and betrayal, and offers things to consider when trying to decide whether to stay in the relationship or end it. Really amazing book. I recommend it to anyone suffering through a betrayal. It will open your eyes and validate your feelings.