I have too many great things to say about this book! This really is the modern field guide to exploring polyamory and going on your own internal journey to a happier life. Polyamory isn't for everyone, but if you're curious, this is a great book. Seriously, just take a look at the table of contents alone! Helpful for working through jealousy and all manner of other negative emotions. It's very thought-provoking!

And no, you don't have to be a 'girl' to get a lot out of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory

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