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168 reviews
4.5
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Blood, Grief, Medical trauma, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
4.0
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Spoiler: chapter contents
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child death, Cursing, Death, Eating disorder, Gore, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Blood, Grief, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual violence
3.5
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Self harm, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Cultural appropriation, and Gaslighting
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Death, Mental illness, Grief, and Pregnancy
Minor: War
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Animal death, Child death, Death, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Fire/Fire injury, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Racism and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Racial slurs, Police brutality, Cultural appropriation, and Classism
Minor: Stalking
2.5
4.0
Take-aways:
- You can use rough estimates of probabilities to calculate risks and decide on the best course of action.
- If you can remove a necessary condition of the risk, you can eliminate the risk
- Add slack/ flexibility to your plans, so you have room to pivot and still achieve your goals
- Be mindful of “and” and “or” operators in your mental calculus
- Create more “or” operators high in the model that something will go right.
I would have given it 5 stars if, at the end of the book, the author had tied everything together by summarizing the key takeaways in a way that the average person can use. For example, if you are job hunting, you can create more "or" operators by applying for more jobs, as this increases the likelihood one of those branches will be successful (i.e. that one application leads to an offer). As is, the reader must intentionally stop and reflect on how his ideas might apply to their own life.