“And the truth is that our unconscious is really good at this, to the point where thin-slicing often delivers a better answer than more deliberate and exhaustive ways of thinking.”
At first, I was pretty clear as to what the book was for and what it was trying to achieve. It later spun out of control and lost its central thesis. Pretty interesting collection of research, but otherwise I was left with the impression it didn’t have much else to say.
“[...] because the only thing I know for sure after all of this research is that if you’re going to dare greatly, you’re going to get your ass kicked at some point. If you choose courage, you will absolutely know failure, disappointment, setback, even heartbreak. That’s why we call it courage. That’s why it’s so rare.”
I get the message she’s trying to send here. However, I have a REALLY hard time clicking with her writing style/explanations. Not sure why, which results in a reading experience with an appreciation for what she’s trying to do here, but little in the way of digestion and implementation. I can see, however, how it can be useful to somebody else. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case for me.
“She purses her lips, then says directly and with no room for misinterpretation, “How often is your daily living impeded by your mental illness?” And maybe it’s not always this bad. And maybe I’m not always convinced I’ve been poisoned and my body needs to be drained of blood. And maybe it’s not always like this, but that doesn’t mean it never is, nor that what it is instead is any easier to bear. So I tell the truth. “Every day.”
I adored the approach when aging them up. Monty never loses his characteristic snark, but you can tell he's dulled and exhausted. Seeing Felicity as a respected physician was splendid. Aging characters up is always a little tricky, it’s difficult to strike that balance between years of experience and age has changed them and this is still fundamentally the same person, but I think Lee does it extraordinarily well. I believed Monty was older the second he made his appearance, I felt it. I'm a WEE bit disappointed we didn’t get to spend more time with Louisa and Edward, though considering it's the last book I understand the decision to do so. And the plot this time around unfortunately didn’t quite click for me. I think I would’ve preferred it if there had really been no ship. I think that would’ve landed the message more heavily, but that’s my onion. Regardless I loved spending time with these characters one last time and I cried at the end.
"There’s an old Irish proverb that says, “A good laugh and a long sleep are two best cures for anything.”
There are several different ideas that are very insufficiently sourced: magnesium as a valuable supplement when not deficient, cellphone radiation affecting sleep. I cross-checked the sources and MANY were from blog posts or led me to a dead site or dot coms. One was from honest-to-god the Daily Mail.
There are—admittedly—breadcrumbs here and there of ideas that are of merit when the sources are well-backed and credible. But honestly, you would be MUCH better off just reading “Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker, Ph.D. which says just as much as this book and more with reputable references.
I would just remind fellow nonfiction readers to be diligent with their sources and always read critically. It’s dangerous to read blindly and take it as fact just because “you read it in a book,” regardless of the title or self-proclaimed expertise of the author. A healthy amount of skepticism is crucial.
"I’m a story they’re telling. I am circumstances."
No Spoilers I’m starting to remember that melancholy feeling all of John’s fiction writing has. I think I prefer his nonfiction writing in that regard. It feels less hopeless.
No spoilers I’m going to be honest with you, I’m not entirely sure why I reread this. I remember sort of liking it in middle school. That’s as far as it went. Considering that was my reaction when I was still the target audience, can you imagine now? It’s certainly a cute story. Sodapop, as I recalled, is the most likable and sympathetic character. Otherwise, I forgot it almost as soon as I put it down. Something just does not fully click for me.