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octavia_cade's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
reflective
fast-paced
3.0
I don't want to give it away, but there is a genius section in this book that concerns a rhinoceros, and the delighted noise I made when I came across it probably had to be heard to be believed. A rhinoceros is perhaps not what you expect from a graphic memoir where Peeters falls in love with the single mother of a toddler, knowing that both mother and child are HIV positive. The openness and honesty with which he describes their growing relationship - both as a couple and as a family - are genuinely appealing, and the metaphor of the rhino is stunningly effective. This is subtitled A Positive Love Story, and that's accurate: it's a story primarily of optimism, and how compromised health doesn't stop love. I really did appreciate that part of it.
I was less enamoured by the art. Other than the rhino, I didn't much care for it... but that's a matter of aesthetics and no doubt others will really enjoy the visual style. The rhino made up for a lot, though, and I was going to give this four stars until the mammoth showed up. Yes, a mammoth - not so much a real mammoth, but a construct with which Peeters can have a philosophical discussion about his circumstances, and I'm sorry, but even a mammoth can't interest me in philosophy. The real life details of Peeters and Cati and the kid (always unnamed) are genuinely compelling, but that strongly abstract near-conclusion just couldn't hold my attention, I'm afraid.
I was less enamoured by the art. Other than the rhino, I didn't much care for it... but that's a matter of aesthetics and no doubt others will really enjoy the visual style. The rhino made up for a lot, though, and I was going to give this four stars until the mammoth showed up. Yes, a mammoth - not so much a real mammoth, but a construct with which Peeters can have a philosophical discussion about his circumstances, and I'm sorry, but even a mammoth can't interest me in philosophy. The real life details of Peeters and Cati and the kid (always unnamed) are genuinely compelling, but that strongly abstract near-conclusion just couldn't hold my attention, I'm afraid.
deepfreezebatman's review against another edition
4.0
at first I was very skeptical of this comic. It really didn't look like it would be my kind of thing and I thought I would be a drag. But surprisingly, I was completely taken in by the story and think it may be one of the most genuine autobiographies I have read. The translation at times isn't the best, but the mammoth is amazing. Overall, really well done and an effective use of the graphic medium.
igormdemiranda's review against another edition
3.0
Levou bastante tempo para que eu me abrisse aos quadrinhos e as histórias gráficas em geral. Foi somente com a ajuda de uns bons amigos e com a influência do Brain Pickings, que acabei por me abrir para o gênero de verdade. Ainda bem! Essa nova forma de ver as coisas, ao qual já tinha sentido antes no universo da poesia, me fez colher experiências incríveis, como esse Pílulas Azuis.
No livro, Peeters conta a história do seu relacionamento com a sua esposa, portadora do vírus HIV. É um relato verdadeiro, por vezes desesperador, dos receios de ambas as partes e do aprendizado contínuo sobre a doença. O significado de uma camisinha estourada, a comunicação para a família, a decisão de ter filhos, tudo se torna diferente.
Foi uma forma incrível de aprender mais sobre o HIV, tanto no nível da informação quanto no nível humano, e me fez entender o impacto e as reflexões que surgem nas vidas de pessoas nessas condições.
No livro, Peeters conta a história do seu relacionamento com a sua esposa, portadora do vírus HIV. É um relato verdadeiro, por vezes desesperador, dos receios de ambas as partes e do aprendizado contínuo sobre a doença. O significado de uma camisinha estourada, a comunicação para a família, a decisão de ter filhos, tudo se torna diferente.
Foi uma forma incrível de aprender mais sobre o HIV, tanto no nível da informação quanto no nível humano, e me fez entender o impacto e as reflexões que surgem nas vidas de pessoas nessas condições.
sizrobe's review against another edition
4.0
Touching story about dealing with a partner who has HIV. Apparently for their situation, transmission would be extremely unlikely, but if you ask me, that's still a deal breaker.
czytomasz's review against another edition
4.0
Cudownie jest przeczytać historię o chorobie z tak pozytywnym przesłaniem, bez negatywnych emocji i z ogromem nadziei. Przy okazji ma również istotny walor edukacyjny, dzięki któremu można wyzbyć się uprzedzeń i uwrażliwić na drugiego człowieka.
laisarjona's review against another edition
4.0
4.0/5.0
This graphic novel was absolutely beautiful. Yes, it was informative and answered a lot of questions I didn't know I had about HIV, but the biggest impact the narrative had on me was to make me really understand that someone with AIDS needs to deal with a lot of things but are still capable of having a normal life and healthy relationships.
Personally, I've been dealing with similar feelings, wanting to be "normal", people's ignorance toward a medical condition, medicines, collateral efects, self doubt, fear. I know that it's not the same, but I felt related to this characters, I felt comforted.
This story showed me that there will always be people out there with love enough. People that care for you and want to deal with your shit because they think you're worth the effort. I didn't knew how much I needed this right now.
This graphic novel was absolutely beautiful. Yes, it was informative and answered a lot of questions I didn't know I had about HIV, but the biggest impact the narrative had on me was to make me really understand that someone with AIDS needs to deal with a lot of things but are still capable of having a normal life and healthy relationships.
Personally, I've been dealing with similar feelings, wanting to be "normal", people's ignorance toward a medical condition, medicines, collateral efects, self doubt, fear. I know that it's not the same, but I felt related to this characters, I felt comforted.
This story showed me that there will always be people out there with love enough. People that care for you and want to deal with your shit because they think you're worth the effort. I didn't knew how much I needed this right now.
dawnoftheread's review against another edition
3.0
Thoughtful and tender memoir about a man who falls in love with a woman infected with HIV.
robin_dh's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
4.5
chandlerkl's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
medium-paced
3.75
Graphic: Chronic illness, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Blood, and Medical content