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aqtbenz's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Moderate: Racism
wilybooklover's review
2.0
First of all, the book was way too long and slow-paced. There were whole long sections in there focusing on the heroine's days at work and her repetitive musings about work that could have been significantly cut down without losing anything. We never even get to see her meet two of the hero's bandmates, which I think would have made a much better use of the page-time. I'll come back to this part later, but the last quarter of the book was full of unnecessary melodrama that also went on for way too long. It felt like it needed a really good edit.
It pains me to say this, because I usually love 'unlikeable' heroines, but being in Ari's head was an exercise in frustration. If she were just somewhat less judgmental, pessimistic, and wilfully ignorant, I would've liked this book a lot more. I think part of the reason the book felt so long is how negative and closed-off she was about almost everything. And every time she had an epiphany about something, she'd seemingly forget all about it by the next chapter.
Now, back to what I said about the last quarter of the book. The thing that mainly kept me reading this book was how much I loved the hero, Jihoon, but his refusal to really listen to and understand Ari's qualms about his fame began to get on my nerves at this point.
Graphic: Bullying and Racism
Moderate: Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Xenophobia, and Stalking
Minor: Homophobia and Sexual content
daniellekat's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.25
Moderate: Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, and Racism
Minor: Stalking and Alcohol
phua_jieying's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Racism, and Xenophobia
Moderate: Body shaming, Misogyny, Medical content, and Stalking
Minor: Homophobia and Sexual content
mcire's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Racism
Moderate: Sexual content and Stalking
meghansarmiento97's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Minor: Bullying, Racism, Sexual content, and Xenophobia
btwnprintedpgs's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
Graphic: Bullying, Racism, and Alcohol
Moderate: Emotional abuse
Minor: Fatphobia
gattolinos_nerdy_nook's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
I loved watching Ariadne grow as a character and how that growth effects the relationships around her. It doesn't shy aware from the good and bad of discovering your wants and needs for life.
I also enjoyed Jihoon's journey as well, though it was not the forefront of the book.
I love the two of them together and how well their personalities meshed.
I highly recommend reading this RomCom for every funny and serious moment will give you.
Graphic: Bullying and Racism
Moderate: Body shaming, Sexual content, and Stalking
bookishmillennial's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
general premise:
- Contemporary romance & coming-of-age set mostly in Toronto, Canada
- first-person POV of main character, Ariadne (Ari)
- Ari is a lawyer focused on climbing the corporate ladder & living up to her father’s expectations
- while her roommate Hana is out of town, she finds Hana’s cousin Jihoon in their apartment & he’s there to stay for a few weeks as he recovers from a breakup in Seoul
- Ari also hasn’t spoken to her sister Phoebe much due to them being polar opposites & resenting each other for that
- Ari finds out that Jihoon has left out a few things regarding his identity & his job & it takes her on a whirlwind!
- steam: 1/5— it’s a closed door romance
- cw: racism, misogyny, body shaming, bullying
thoughts:
I'd like to first start this off by saying that every time there is a character named Brittany that is spelled exactly as I spell my name, she is utter and absolute garbage. I do not claim characters in books named Brittany; I have yet to find a redeeming or kind one hahaha. This book is further proof that Brittanys in books suck.
Maybe it's because I've read so many celebrity x peasant romances lately, but this one didn't hit for me the same way The Stand In did last year! That's not to say that this was a horrible romance or that it was a bad book. I still enjoyed the writing, thought there was sweet moments & rooted for Ari & Jihoon. However, I just wasn't gushing over the characters or the romance by the end!
However, the part that did work for me were the representations of and commentaries on racial dynamics in Toronto, Canada. Though I'm not from there (I have family there though!), these instances of microaggressions, overtly problematic behaviors, and ruminations on belonging rang authentic to me as a bisexual, neurospicy, AAPI survivor in the United States. I think sometimes people read about these situations or they watch them portrayed on tv/film and think "huh, that's so exaggerated. I've NeVeR seen someone act like that or say anything racist before. NoT iN mY ToWn!" OR they think, "Wow, some people are so horrible. I'm such a good ally myself though!" Lol, look, I enjoy a good delulu era. However, I hope that you are constantly examining how your actions and words can be actively anti-racist. Otherwise, you actually could be causing more harm than you think.
Here are questions you can think on to explore your own behavior:
-Are you talking over anyone? Are you constantly taking up space in conversations? Who are you talking over? Are there any voices not being heard?
-When someone brings up a situation that was problematic/harmful to them (that you caused or have power over in that dynamic), do you question them and ask them for proof/examples? Do you deflect and make it about your feelings instead? Do you get defensive and immediately feel attacked? Do you call them "mean", "negative", or accuse them of using race/sexuality/etc. as a weapon? OR do you ask how you could do better next time? Do you think, 'hm, I never thought of that before and I'm glad to have this information so I can expand my perspective.'
-When someone says something harmful (not you), do you point it out? Do you address it? Are you trying to foster brave spaces? OR do you hide under "SaFe SpAcEs" that inevitably end up harming POC/queer/disabled/fat/poor folx because others are allowed to speak however they want -typically over marginalized folx- without consequence?
Those are just a few ways to examine any internalized bias that we *all* have. No one is perfect but the key is to be actively working on it. So I'm grateful that there's more representation of these kinds of conversations!
Graphic: Misogyny and Racism
Moderate: Bullying
Minor: Body shaming
nicoreads333's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Minor: Body shaming, Racism, and Abandonment