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9 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Alcoholism and Mental illness
Minor: Violence
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Terminal illness, Violence, Grief, Car accident, Suicide attempt, and Death of parent
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, and Medical content
Minor: Animal death
5.0
Alexandra Wilson manages to inform the reader without getting into heavy and confusing legal jargon. I felt for so many of the defendants spoken about in this book, and how so many of them needed help not a criminal charge.
If anything I'd say the rhetoric in this book is too lenient in its interpretation of outdated laws, institutionally racist police, criminalisation of poverty and poor mental health, and chronic underfunding of services. The message is there, but perhaps saying it outright as a practicing barrister isn't possible without damaging your livelihood. I'm grateful that she is shining a light on the issues so that people can come to their own conclusions.
I'll also add that while the book goes into detail about the impacts of race, gender, socioeconomic status and disability (including mental health) on ending up in the legal system, LGBTQIA+ issues aren't even mentioned. Given the high rates of mental health issues and homelessness among the LGBTQIA+ community, I doubt there's not a connection.
Overall though Alexandra Wilson is an excellent writer and making strides for equal representation at the bar. I shall certainly be picking up any other books she comes out with in future.
Moderate: Ableism, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racism, Sexism, Violence, Police brutality, and Grief
Minor: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Pedophilia, Rape, Forced institutionalization, Trafficking, Car accident, and Murder
2.75
However I think this book would have been better had it been written 5 or 10 years from now. Jamie says themselves that they were still figuring themselves out only a few years before writing In Their Shoes (They were 22 at time of writing). I felt that the books was muddled. It didn't know what it wanted to be. Is it a memoir? A self-help guide for other trans and nonbinary folk? A learning tool for cis people wanting to be better allies? Jamie gives us teasing mentions of other queer people they look up to, or have influenced them, but most we never hear any stories about. If we do, it's always used to teach a lesson, or make a point.
I'd love for Jamie to write a book 10 years from now. One that isn't full of information for naive audiences or advice for baby gays, but full of the rich stories of their life and the amazing people in it. I want to read about other queers, not as a learning moment, but just because we're amazing people worth reading about.
I recommend giving it a read if you're not that informed about trans people and trans culture, especially on the nonbinary side (though remember that their experience isn't the same as other people's).
Graphic: Homophobia, Mental illness, and Transphobia
Moderate: Body shaming, Bullying, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Violence
Minor: Drug abuse, Drug use, Suicide, and Police brutality
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Minor: Death
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Minor: Death and Transphobia
4.5
Graphic: Infidelity and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Rape, Abortion, and Death of parent
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0